At least not real man sex . . . 😉

Dear Reader,

If there is one thing that has always been a bug bear in most of my relationships (well not most, but a LOT — at least until a certain age and point); it is that eternal question of balancing BDSM (femdom for me) and a “regular sex life”.

And that’s probably why I created www.spicyanderoticfetish.com — or one of the reasons, at any rate.

I know there are plenty of men and women out there in similar situations that they cannot really talk about, and situations which…